The fairies didn’t clean my room + when I lost my magic

The fairies didn’t clean my room + when I lost my magic

When I was a kid, I hated to clean my room. Back then, I did this thing to see if I could get away with not cleaning it… I would close my eyes and pray really hard. I thought if I prayed hard enough, when I opened my eyes, my room would be clean. While I closed my eyes, I would have this vision of darling fairies coming out of their hiding places and cleaning my room. I knew they were there. I just knew it. Oh they were so cute. Why couldn’t I have my own posse of fairies and animals who would do stuff for me? But every single time I opened my eyes, I’d be looking at the same messy room. After several attempts, I would just give up and finally clean my room myself…but all the while, wondering what it would take to be so magical that I never had to clean my room again and these fairies would show up at will. I’ve been fascinated with magic ever since. I always knew there were things possible that I couldn’t see with my physical eyes. But over time, that magic got squashed with common sense, being responsible, and being realistic. But what if we are Alchemists? Magic makers? Energy activators? You’re already a mover and a shaker… a trailblazer. What could happen if you started playing with magic in your business too? When I burned down my business a few years back, it was because I had forgotten my deep connection and yearning for magic. I could not run my business another second the way I was...
You are not your modality

You are not your modality

What do you do? Those four words put soulpreneurs into their head and out of their magic faster than you can even finish asking the question. So let’s play a little game… There are two people who do the exact same thing, but which one would you rather work with? Which one would you engage with? Person A: Imagine in one hour, old beliefs that have been holding you back for years are just gone and now you have space to choose the new beliefs that actually work for you, instead of against you. I help people erase old beliefs from their brain by creating new neuropathways, which are the things in your brain that actually create and hold the beliefs you have. After a one-hour session, people often find that they can sleep better, and even things like anxiety and depression decrease along with creating new beliefs that create the amazing life you are seeking. Person B: I’m an Access Consciousness Bars practitioner, which is a healing modality that applies light touch to pressure points on the head. I do one-hour sessions and you can come to me in my office, or I also do house call visits to make it even easier. SAME exact thing, but the message is totally different. Let’s try another one: Option A: I’m a massage therapist and Reiki practitioner and I love working with women. I believe that everyone can be healed and I love to work with people who are tired of being stressed out and they want inner peace. Option B: When my clients work with me, they integrate their goals in their body...
An open letter about 6-figure success

An open letter about 6-figure success

Every where we look, we are presented with the myth that the right answer will fix us. The right presidential candidate will fix the United States. The right marketing plan will fix your business. The right eating plan will fix your thighs. The right kind of man or woman will fix your love life. The right coach or strategy will fix your bank account. We’re trained to look for what’s wrong; it’s become a great pass time. It’s event become a great career for some folks. For those of us who have been on the path of personal and spiritual development, we have been trained to process why we have the problem in the first place. Because maybe, just maybe, if we process it just right, the problem will be “healed.” And for sometimes even years, we process the shit out of it. We enroll others to help us process it because we just can’t see what we can’t see. We even start clubs for people who have the same issues, because if we can’t fix ourselves, then perhaps we can fix someone else. Some of us have even led the bandwagon of the big 6-figure problems because we believed that with the right solutions, we could fix our broken businesses and bank accounts. We thought it would work. We hoped it would. I thought it would work. And the master trick is, it can work for a short time, but it’s not sustainable. So BAM, we have another problem to fix and the cycle continues. We search some more. Some of us find a path of trusting ourselves, after being told most...
Fear of missing out or trust? The choice is yours.

Fear of missing out or trust? The choice is yours.

Big promises make you feel like you may be missing out on something BIG… <Imagine the ringmaster of the circus bellowing this into the crowd of people> “Not making enough money in your business?  This system is what you NEED to solve the problem forever. If you don’t do it, you’ll never make it. You’ll be stuck forever. Here’s how it works…” “Not losing weight fast enough? Try out this magic potion to fix the problem…” The 30-day money-back guarantee means it’s totally legit right? Part of the problem that adds to this “Fear of Missing Out” or FOMO as Nancy Marmalejo calls it, is an epidemic of how advertising and marketing trainings have taught us to write copy. We’ve been trained that our posts, headlines, sales pages, and subject lines need to be flashy and captivating in order to be read. Forget about real and honest, it’s better to be larger-than-life so we cut above the white noise, especially online. We’ve got to talk about the three secrets to fame, so we can be, well famous of course! And here’s the thing. It works. Until it doesn’t. Until you realize that your motivation to buy is fear, and you’re done with fear running your life. Another fabulous person to follow in how to write your message so it’s real, is Stella Orange. I love a post she shared last week on Facebook: Speaking of Facebook, let’s take a look at this ad I just saw on FB… “The 4-Step Strategy That Helped Us Build a $200,000 Per Month Coaching Business. Watch how we attract an UNSTOPPABLE flow of the PERFECT clients...

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