When you’re just not feelin’ it – but you’ve got a biz to run.

When you’re just not feelin’ it – but you’ve got a biz to run.

You know that moment when you realize that you need to take your own coaching? That moment when you say YES to you, your life, your dream, your upleveled reality, and everything that is not in alignment with that shows up ready to ask you if you are really ready to move forward. Yeah, that moment. The “oh $hit moment.” Something crazy cool happens when you say YES to YOU. Big awareness shows up. Excitement. Woohoo. And other stuff shows up too. Resistance. Fear. Sometimes things even blow up. Is change ever really super comfortable? Why does this happen? It’s energy – the law of vibration. Example: You say yes to a $100,000 business. Everything that doesn’t align with that will show up almost as if to tap you on the shoulder and say “do you really think you can have that?” The dog throws up, the car breaks down, you get in a stupid fight with your partner… You say yes to hosting your first event after taking a year sabbatical and some fears come up that feel real and feel heavy and this is AFTER hosting over 100 live events. Wth? (this is me by the way) Crap starts happening. You look under the rug because you are finally brave enough to SEE and you don’t always like what’s underneath there. It doesn’t align with what you are moving INTO. It’s a reminder of choices you made in the past and THAT is where the good news is. The past is just that – it’s not the present. It’s usually never actually REAL. The ONLY place to...
We’re asking the wrong question in manifesting

We’re asking the wrong question in manifesting

Here’s a little story about a woman who made big things happening. She did it without a business plan and without knowing how every detail works out. She did it because she trusted herself. And in the moments she didn’t trust herself, she had people around her to cheer her on and remind her of what is possible. This woman is me. It’s you. It’s my friend Sylvia, Ann and Tina. You’ll meet them in just a minute. You’ve heard this question – What would you do if you knew you could not fail? I think we are asking the wrong question. The better question is: What could you do if you totally trusted yourself?          Meet Sylvia: Sylvia knows the power of the right question. She created an exquisite card deck that simply asks questions. Why? Because you have your own answers. But we are taught from a very young age that our answers aren’t the right answers. There is someone else who knows more and who knows better for us. So as we start to build our business, we get sucked into promises like: “Follow your passion and the money will come.” “Follow this 7-step system and make $100,000 in 90 days.” AKA – do it THIS way, and you will succeed. The only formula that matters is your own. The first step to manifesting what you want is to trust yourself. The second step: Practice non-attachment while you are clear about what you want. I was part of a Buddhist Sangha for about four years. In that tradition, non-attachment is everything. Here’s what...

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