Talking yourself into loving it

Talking yourself into loving it

I was talking myself into loving it… “It’s better than what I have now.” “I can make it work.” “I really love these parts of it…” This was my conversation 48 hours ago as my husband and I were making a decision about making an offer on a house we saw. Then came the, “maybe we’ll just stay where we are. Maybe it’s better to just do some upgrades to this house…” Today this sign went up in our yard. $hit just got real. It’s happening. We’re moving. And we don’t have a place to go… yet. Welcome to “The GAP.” The place in between what you SAY you’re letting go of and what you SAY you desire. But that thing you desire hasn’t shown up yet. The GAP is also the place where possibilities go to die from causes like, “being responsible,” “being realistic,” and “being practical.” Been there. Done that. And it’s friggin’ boring isn’t’ it? Before we get to what to do in the GAP, let’s start with that thing you really desire. If you’ve had something you’ve desired to create for a while now, what is it? What’s really stopping you? For me, I’ve talked about the desire to move for over five years now. FIVE YEARS. I made up a bunch of stories in my head: It’s too hard to qualify for a mortgage on self-employment income. I can’t yet afford the house I really desire. My husband doesn’t want to leave Utah. As long as I travel, I can stay put and be happy. Blah, blah… when I can’t stand to hear myself...

Wanna host your own workshop or have a knack for event planning?

If you are interested in hosting your own workshop, event, or retreat then I have some exciting news for you. If you are interested in adding event planning for multi-day events for entrepreneurs to your services, then keep reading. (Or if you know of someone who is interested, forward this email to them.) I’ve hosted over 100 live events since 2009. Everything from small networking meetings to my largest being a 600+ attendee workshop. My specialty is hosting 3-day events and creating deep transformation for my audience and walking away with a high 5-figure or 6-figure payday WITHOUT breaking the bank. Possibility #1: Get notified when doors are open for Soul Vision Events, my in-person training about everything you need to know to host your own workshop or event AND make money without it being a pitch-a-thon. I’ll be hosting a training on everything you need to know so you can do this YOUR way in the upcoming months. To be the first to know the details when they are ready, you can add your name to my notify list here: Possibility #2: Become a certified onsite event manager for transformational entrepreneurs. For those of you who have a knack for event planning and would like to do this for entrepreneurs who are hosting multi-day events, this option is for you. The coaching world is missing something big: onsite event managers to manage the details of your event who also GET energy, intuition, and creating transformation. There are a lot of folks who can find and negotiate with the venue, but does the event run smoothly so the event...
I wasn’t crazy, just an Empath {Free Resource}

I wasn’t crazy, just an Empath {Free Resource}

I remember the moment I realized that I wasn’t crazy, just highly aware of energy. I was in my early twenties and was attending my first Hay House workshop. I attended a breakout session led by a woman named Judith Orloff…(I had no idea who she was at the time.) I was in search of answers because I was secretly afraid that I was crazy. This was my life back then: I was shy, mostly awkward (didn’t know how to talk to people), and just always felt “off.” I never fit in. I hated small talk and just didn’t know what was wrong with me. Had there been a diagnosis, it would have probably came back as depression and social anxiety (at a minimum). I was secretly worried that I was crazy and it was only a matter of time before someone figured this out. Why did I think I was crazy? I just knew things about situations and people. I would be in the same room with someone or walk into a store and I would just KNOW things. I would feel weird when I was in crowded places. I had no other way to describe it other than feeling “weird.” It’s like everyone’s thoughts and feelings bombarded me and I liked being alone, rather than around people, because of it. And if I was in a toxic environment, or if I saw a scary movie or something tragic on the news, it would take me days or even weeks to feel “normal” again. My life changed that day attending that workshop. Judith (who was leading the session) was talking about being...
A workshop. Leaning in. Learning Italian.

A workshop. Leaning in. Learning Italian.

It was not a regular Monday night. I sat there feeling stupid. I was behind. I didn’t understand. As the teacher was describing first, second, and third-person verb conjugation in Italian, I suddenly couldn’t remember what that even meant in English, let alone this language that went from being beautiful, to hard and frustrating. I wanted to run. I wanted to quit. Every time I felt stupid in school came rushing back. But I stayed. I leaned in. I practiced the words. I attempted to roll my Rs with my braces and while I’m getting much better, it was hard! When things get hard, do you run, or do you lean in? I see a lot of people run away from the power that a clear message and marketing can provide to their business because they don’t know what to do. Here’s the good news: 1) you are always closer than you think you are, and 2) with a few small adjustments, your message and marketing can make you a lot more money. Can I assist you with putting these pieces together in an intuitive and soulful way? My upcoming Business Alchemy workshop is happening online, or in person in Utah or Australia. It’s three hours together and we’ll get your message and marketing dialed in. It’s only $97 + I’m giving you access to The Money Club for a full year, a training hub for SOULpreneurs to change their relationship with money. It’s not uncommon for really smart people to run, shut down, or distract themselves with busy work, instead of leaning into the discomfort that shows up when they don’t have a crystal...
The fairies didn’t clean my room + when I lost my magic

The fairies didn’t clean my room + when I lost my magic

When I was a kid, I hated to clean my room. Back then, I did this thing to see if I could get away with not cleaning it… I would close my eyes and pray really hard. I thought if I prayed hard enough, when I opened my eyes, my room would be clean. While I closed my eyes, I would have this vision of darling fairies coming out of their hiding places and cleaning my room. I knew they were there. I just knew it. Oh they were so cute. Why couldn’t I have my own posse of fairies and animals who would do stuff for me? But every single time I opened my eyes, I’d be looking at the same messy room. After several attempts, I would just give up and finally clean my room myself…but all the while, wondering what it would take to be so magical that I never had to clean my room again and these fairies would show up at will. I’ve been fascinated with magic ever since. I always knew there were things possible that I couldn’t see with my physical eyes. But over time, that magic got squashed with common sense, being responsible, and being realistic. But what if we are Alchemists? Magic makers? Energy activators? You’re already a mover and a shaker… a trailblazer. What could happen if you started playing with magic in your business too? When I burned down my business a few years back, it was because I had forgotten my deep connection and yearning for magic. I could not run my business another second the way I was...
9 Truthbombs about Live Events We’ve Got to Talk About

9 Truthbombs about Live Events We’ve Got to Talk About

The coaching industry and live events…can we please talk about this? A lot of people I talk to are not going to as many live events like they used to. When I ask them why, here are the most common answers: 1. I have already heard all of the same content from the past six events I went to. It’s just people regurgitating the same stuff. 2. I don’t want to be sold to for three days straight. 3. Most events overwhelm me with more information of the “right” way to do things. I don’t need to learn any more information, I need time to implement. YIKES! And this is totally true. That’s why it’s time for a revolution. After hosting over 100 live events and making every mistake in the book, here are nine #truthbombs that will set you free when hosting your own live event: 1. Live events can be a really expensive way to get clients. Four years ago I was complaining about the money that my live event was costing me. The truth is I was really worried about how I would pay for my event. My colleague I was talking to asked me a profound question: “Why are you hosting a live event if it’s so hard and expensive?” My reply: “To fill my mastermind program.” Her reply: “That seems like a really expensive way to make $100,000.” She was right. Hosting a live event to fill a program can be a great thing. But if it’s costing you $50,000 to make $100,000 then there are easier ways to fill a program. That’s why...